When you announce that you’re pregnant you may be flooded with unsolicited advice. From friends, family, co-workers and people on the Internet. I’m not going to tell you not to listen to it because I truly believe 99% of people and trying to help you, and that majority of it is good advice! But also most of the things people tell you are based on their experience and what what worked for their lifestyle and baby. So be open to all advice, but remember take what works for you, and forget the rest (that’s advice from my mom).
As a mom who breastfed for 2 years, and now has not breastfed for almost 2 years I feel very fortunate how our breastfeeding journey went and want to share my experience.
So here’s what they don’t tell you..
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- It doesn’t have to hurt, really it shouldn’t. It may uncomfortable or you may be a little tender at first but with a proper latch it should not be painful. If you cannot get your baby to latch correctly on your own, reach out to your doctor, ask an experienced mom or make an appointment with a lactation specialist.
- You don’t need all the essentials. Nipple covers, nipple creams, ice packs and speciality bras are all suggested items for breastfeeding moms. But that does not mean that you need all of them. Start with one of each, or none at all. With delivery services, and 2-day shipping, you can get any item almost instanly. Give yourself time to get use to breastfeeding, and make sure to put what you think you need on your registry.
- Watch your baby’s weight. The first few weeks and months after your baby is born will require a lot of doctor visits. The pediatrician will weigh your baby at each appointment to make sure your baby is growing and gaining weight. It is normal for babies weight to fluctuant right after birth.
- You might not have an oversupply. And that is okay, as long as you are producing enough to feed your baby during the feed. But if you are trying to have a little milk stash make sure to pump when you are away from your baby and try a Hakkaa when you are feeding.
- It is okay to stop. Only you can make the decision on whether to breastfeed or not. Listen to your body, listen to your baby and consider your mental health.
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